Fingers that cannot grip properly, eyes that don’t want to focus and ears that are struggling to process sound – this is what it feels like to have dementia.

According to a report commissioned by the Alzheimer’s Society, 982,000 people in the UK have dementia as of 2024. By 2040, this is expected to rise for 1.4 million.

 Virtual Dementia Tour Mobile arrived at Sarah’s Carers in Melton, to give the loved ones of those with the condition and those who care for them the chance to find out.

East Anglian Daily Times: Ian Chalkley of Training 2 Care outside the mobile dementia experience. Image: Charlotte BondIan Chalkley of Training 2 Care outside the mobile dementia experience. Image: Charlotte Bond (Image: Charlotte Bond)

“Everyone with dementia will experience it differently,” explained Mrs Seaman, owner of the Woodbridge-based Sarah’s Carers. Some symptoms are more common than others. For example, at least 70% of the clients who use Sarah’s Carers have some level of memory loss, said assistant manager Sarah Nichols.

With that in mind, Mrs Seaman felt it was important for her staff to gain a first-hand experience of what it is like to be a person living with dementia and experience some of the impacts of the condition. 

Others had come along because they have a loved one living with the condition; nutritionist Natasha Hodge’s father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2022, and she hoped to gain some understanding of how best to support him.

East Anglian Daily Times: From left to right: Assistant Sarah Nichols, Sarah Seaman, Natasha Hodge and Anzelle Forter. Image: Charlotte BondFrom left to right: Assistant Sarah Nichols, Sarah Seaman, Natasha Hodge and Anzelle Forter. Image: Charlotte Bond (Image: Charlotte Bond)

We were ushered onto the ‘dementia bus’ by Ian Chalkley of Training 2 Care. The experience was the brainchild of American Professor PK Beville, he explained, and Training 2 Care is the only provider licenced to give the experience in the UK.

Mr Chalkley handed out spiky insoles to be worn inside shoes, pairs of thick gloves, dark glasses and headphones, and told us that no questions would be answered once the experience began.

East Anglian Daily Times: Experiencing the virtual dementia simulation was eye-opening. Image: Charlotte BondExperiencing the virtual dementia simulation was eye-opening. Image: Charlotte Bond (Image: Charlotte Bond)

East Anglian Daily Times: We were given simple tasks to accomplish, such as setting a table - which was next to impossible to do, wearing the heavy gloves and dark glasses. Image: Charlotte BondWe were given simple tasks to accomplish, such as setting a table - which was next to impossible to do, wearing the heavy gloves and dark glasses. Image: Charlotte Bond (Image: Charlotte Bond)East Anglian Daily Times: The experience was unsettling, and brought home to us how difficult it must be to live with dementia. Image: Charlotte BondThe experience was unsettling, and brought home to us how difficult it must be to live with dementia. Image: Charlotte Bond (Image: Charlotte Bond)

Once inside the bus, high-pitched, whirring noises began to play. The only light came from green and red, moving circle.

It was only when Mr Chalkley came and stood next to us and loudly instructed us to set a table and pair up socks that we were able to hear him – and processing his words above the ruckus was difficult.

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The whole experience was disorientating, unsettling, and more than a little frightening. Standing in the gloom trying to tell the difference between socks while being told to get a move on, I was immensely thankful when the lights came on and the whole nightmarish experience was over.

It was a sobering realisation to come to that, for more and more people every year, this is daily life.

Of course, not every person will experience symptoms in the same way or to the same degree. However, I can see why this is a valuable experience if you have someone in your life who lives with dementia, this would be a timely reminder of the need to be kind.